Dear Mrs Yates,
First let me thank you for coming to me for advice and counseling. Secondly upon reading your letter I must tell you that never did you indicate that you tried talking to your husband.
Communication is the key in any strong relationship. Once the doors of communication are closed, almost all hope is lost. Also if you haven't caught your husband cheating, you need to try your best to pull that from your mind. You seem to be putting everything on your husband, but when did he lose your trust?
Once a woman gets it in her mind that her spouse is cheating, she starts digging. More than likely when you do start digging you will find something (worthy or unworthy) to leave them for. Don't let that happen to you, don't let that happen to your marriage. Is your love or your husband not worth fighting for. I can't help the feeling from reading your letter that you have already given up.
My advice:
#1: Talk to your husband, try to relate to how he's feeling. (serving alcohol doesn't hurt)
#2: LISTEN & COUNT TO 20 before responding... (if he has something on his chest, it may take him a while to reveal it)
#3: Have hot passionate sex! (that's also something you didn't indicate, but if he's never there, I can imagine it's lacking)
-Dr. Coe
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